Nervous about my 36 week check up!

barbiemom

So... this is my 1st baby and I'm on my 35th week of pregnancy. I had an apointment last week and everything looks normal, so everithing was going good for me until my ob/gyn said "next time you come I will have to check you down there." I was like "ok" then he said "it hurts" so now im freaking out! He really made me feel uncomfortable. So now I'm all nervous about the vaginal check up. I know it wont hurt as much as giving birth but seriously his "it hurts" comment was totally NOT necessary!  I have my 36 week apointment next week, I will make sure my husband comes along but what can I do to make myself relax!!!??