Divorced moms

supermansmommy

I'm on the verge of filing for divorce. I've already met with one atty and I have appointments set up with 3 more this week. Why am I seeking a divorce? Because I discovered my husband was having multiple affairs and has been lying to me since we met six years ago. I'm still having a hard time accessing the anger I feel inside, but I do feel like I need to move forward with filing for the sake of my son and I. My issue is that because I'm not at a point where I can access and channel my anger, I'm not sure how I can effectively break the news to him and have it really hit home. I don't want to just serve him with the papers, I think that's unfair and while part of me hates him, part of me loves him as well. But I don't want to give him a clue as to the direction my mind is going because I don't want him to panic and act irrationally. How did you go about breaking the news about filing?

 

Edited because I'm a grammer fail.