Visitation Question

Leipock

Hello Ladies,

      Haven't been on here in a really long time. Mostly been so busy with moving on with my life. But I do have a question. My STBXH and I live three hours apart. Our biggest issue is a visitation schedule for our two children, 3 and 1. I refuse to meet him halfway for drop off and let the children spend more than one night away from me. I would like for him to only have every other weekend day visits. I have been told by a lawyer that the judges in my area ususally only go for that type of visitation for children of their ages. I want my children to see their father but not disturb their lives any more than possible. Am I being too strict or should I let him see them for longer periods?