it's for two hours tomorrow evening. If you had to do it, how did yours go? the woman on the phone told me that they have a list of things they discuss and try to keep it focused on DD and not so much us (which is a good thing because I'm sure he'll boo hoo about his big bad "baby mama" to this person who is supposed to be impartial!) Anyway, is there anything I need to do to prepare myself? i know that it's pretty pointless to go because he wants 50/50 (so that he doesn't have to pay child support) and I'm not agreeing to 50/50. If we can't agree will they make us just sit there for 2 hours staring at each other? or does it take that long to talk everything out?