so its out...

WiFeY 4 LiFeY

 I was talking to my MIL on the phone and I called DS2 by name (OOOPS! ) We werent telling (her or my two SIL) because they are very opinionated when we told then names we liked for this one and our first. Eeeek.

 So guess what she said-  "Joel, awww its cute. Well, Im going to be honest with you, I wouldnt have picked that name but I like it a hell of a lot better then Jude!" (We were between Jude and Joel). Thanks, I guess?!

 (I just wish people would respect what you name your child and keep any rude thoughts to themselves!)