2+ moms...is DH just not as concerned this time?

theabbey5

I have found in the last few weeks DH is kind of not as concerned about me this time around.  This is our 3rd and I've been a total hormonal head case, so I'll cut him some slack.  BUT I do feel like he is almost in denial that we have a baby coming.  I painted the nursery, nursery furniture (with friends) and have done all the shopping for baby so far.  He doesn't really talk about it much, but maybe that's because I talk about it enough for the both of us.  We've always been really close and have been intimate throughout both pregnancies.  I was turned down twice in the last week ... he claims it's because he has a cold...but what man turns down sex?!  Anyway...just wondering who out there has noticed anything similar with DH and how have you addressed it without coming off whiny and needy?