anyone only want one child?

ljanette85

I really think that I only want one. people think that I will change my mind (i could) but Im pretty sure one is good. our child will have two cousins that are very close in age to play with and a big loving extended family. I plan to return to school after this baby is born which will eat up a few years of my life. my fiance and I are pretty much in agreement, we both grew up poor and would rather have one child that we can provide for instead of scraping by. we want to "spoil" our child with private school and family vacations (they can buy their own deisgner jeans lol)  and I think that we are scared that having more than one will hinder this. any other moms feel this way? I was one of four and he was one of three so we know what its like to have siblings and we love ours, but we really just want to be able to provide a financially secure life for our child. and Im not saying that you cant do this with more than one kid! but I have seen how much harder it can get with each one.