I've gotten lots of different advice and looked at a bunch of sites, including questions on The Bump. Below's what I've got so far in terms of basics. Am I missing anything crucial or helpful? There are so many things to keep track of!
For my baby:
-Car seat
-Coming home outfit
-Blankets
For my sanity:
-Insurance, paperwork
-Toiletries
-Towel, showering shoes
-Pillow
-Socks, sweater, bras, other clothes
-Cell phones, videocamera, tech