Well meaning, BUT....

EmeraldRK85

So, I have a question that I desperately need some input and advice on...

I have a family member who has always been the one to guilt trip you for not calling/visiting enough (even though they never call or visit themselves, unless it is to impose the guilt trip). Well, it has officially begun with the pregnancy, the " I haven't seen you since you told us, when are you going to stop by, I haven't heard how it's going" phone call came in. And while i DO understand that this is the first baby in this family, I am also very frustrated. It is my first baby, and DH and I have traveled one heck of a road to get here. I want to be able to sit back and enjoy MY life, and my excitement with my husband over everything we have overcome to get to this point without stressing or being angry or feeling guilty because SHE doesn't feel SHE is being kept in the loop enough. Is it selfish/ out of line for me to want my ME time with my own little family I am creating to enjoy this experience?