VENT!! People questioning MY invitations to shower!! UGH

tstaggs2012

I sent out my shower invitations a week or so ago.. Babies grandma (dads mom) called me a few days ago to tell me she received it and to just have a general conversation with me... She didn't once mention anything negative about my invites.. Just a few minutes ago I get a call from Jaxon's dad asking why I only put "Shower for Tylon and baby Jaxon" on them and not his name too.. I explained that its customary to just put the mom and baby (first name) on the invitation because normally the showers are female only.. All of the invitations I have received have been that way.. He asked why I didn't put Jaxon's last name on there either.. And I explained the whole customary thing... Apparently it offended babies grandma and great grandma because they felt that I was not including Jaxon's dad... But I didn't feel like I was in the wrong when I made them? And neither one of them mentioned it to me... UGHHH!! >=[ That's my angry face...