cigarette smell

ljanette85

I was at a good friends house recently and was suprised that it reaked of cigarettes. it was not smokey, it just smelled really strong. She does not smoke so I think its her new bf. I have a huge pet peeve about children smelling like cigarettes and when the baby comes there is NO way I will take him/her to a house that smells like them. If my coat smells when I leave then its bad enough for me to not bring the baby there. She is a good friend and I dont want to hurt her feelings, any advice for how to approach this when the time comes? I know she will want to have us over but I just cant do it unless the smell is gone. I stand very firm on this subject, I used to teach a little girl who smelled like an ashtray and it broke my heart