There has to be SOMETHING I can do!?

JamaJenks

Okay, so my libido is ZERO since I've been expecting (to be fair, it wasn't as if I could exactly match DH's appetite before, but this is ridiculous!) I mean even if I TRY I can't get in the mood!

It isn't so much about body image issues, or fear or anything, there is just no physical reaction what-so-ever. Not to mention the few times that we have done the deed the cramps afterward are unbearable, which I think contributes to my hesitation.

Please tell me I'm not the only one? And that there is hope that one day I'll have sex again? LOL. This is depressing!