So, SD was wanted to to the elective ultrasound as long as he didn't have to pay and it didn't interfere with his social life. I told him we should schedule it on Saturday so neither of us misses work. (Don't get me started on my EEOC complaint) That was 4 days ago. I'm guessing his desire to "be with MY son as much as possible" doesn't out weigh his co-dependent need to be with his partner 24/7. Don't you love the "MY"? Last time I looked, I'm the one who's pregnant, and all you've done is donated a little genetic material. Ugh. Anyway...
I've decided to take DD instead. She wanted to go with me at my 20w appt, but they had a strict no kids rule, even if she's 15. I haven't told her yet. I want to make it a surprise. I think she'll enjoy it.