I almost feel awful that I'm having these thoughts... and I think it's combined with the... can you really love another one as much as the one you already have thing?
I have a 19 month old daughter and love her to death. Even before we found out the gender of this one, I already had those thoughts of really, can you really ever love another person this much... which I know if normal.
I don't know if it because I thought if it was a girl I would associate the feelings more with the love I have for my DD, or if it is because I kinda wanted DD to have that special sister relationship...
Either way, I'm just feeling like I need to get on board with this one being a boy... I have no reference point for it. Please tell me about all those wonderful boy things so I can get excited. I'm so relieved mostly that he looks healthy, and I'm not disappointed, I'm just.... having a hard time getting used to the idea.
OK, go... TIA!