When you go in to the hospital to deliver, will DH stay with you until you and baby come home or will he be home with your older DC? If he stays with you, where will your other child/ren stay?
I think I would prefer DH stay at home with DD while I am in the hospital and then the night we have the baby home for the first time, DD can stay at her grandparent's house so that we can kind of figure things out and I can hopefully get some rest.
What are all of you 2nd time mommies doing?