Tips Tricks on how not to be intimidated by Ex

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We have a new visitation schedule and I now have to do pick-ups from his place. he wants me to do things his way (where I should park, how I should handle the pick-ups) and I've refused, I'm doing pickups the way its comfortable for me. so now he's back to trying to goad me into arguing and just trying to physically intimidate me...He comes outside and hovers around me while I'm packing up the kids and getting them squared away in the car. 

I'm trying not to let it get to me, but I need more then "just ignore it". Anyone else have a troublesome ex, how do you handle it? do you just let them talk themselves out... not respond.

The hovering part is the most annoying. I don't want to give him the satisfaction of being nervous, but him just staring at what I'm doing and how I'm doing it, does make me nervous. Did I mention he loves to videotape me...that makes me even more nervous. It's just creepy and I don't think I'll ever get used to it.