So besides documenting things stbxh has done or said to me and actions that I have actually seen take place, what other things should I be looking into. I started to look into his phone records but the amount of phone calls from random out of state numbers is overwhelming. Is it worth the money to figure out who he was talking to? He deleted everything from my computer but would it be worth paying to have the hard drive pulled and trying to find out what he was up to. In all honestly i believe that a lot of his computer usage and phone usage is drug related. As of right now he is passing drug test but I really believe he is still using. The thought of him having unsupervised visits with his daughter is frightening.