For those of you with family out of state...

AshEliz

I love that we live a good 12 hours away from my family's insanity and I know they think they are pretty much moving in with us for a few weeks before and after the baby is born. I know I need to set boundaries now before feelings get hurt too close to the birth. Did you make family stay at a hotel ( this includes your parents and sibs) or did they stay with you? Did they come to staybefore the baby was born or did you wait to tell them until after you went into labor? Just looking for how others have dealt with this situation. Trying to keep my mothers craziness to a minimum for the sake of my baby!