RE: just opinions! Don't wanna get anyone upset

gfornkohl

Okay ladies! This is just a question ... I don't want to get anyone worked up!! So, I'm wondering if a baby see instead of a shower is rude? ... My SIL wants my mom and I to wait til she is here .... I flew to Alaska and threw her a shower but I made my trip 6 weeks to get shower and birth ... So she really wants us to wait so she can be apart ... So instead of a babyshower before ... We would wait til baby is here and do shower and baby see after .... My mom ultimately would be throwing the shower but were very craft people so I would just be helping withthe crafts we like to make home made things ... That's why I keep referring as we ... Anyway I just want opinions or thoughts from moms who did a shower before or after ... Pros or cons? Thanks ladies