I'm about to come off as a terrible person...

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But I'm beginning to realize that I don't really want anyone to come visit after the baby is born....we live across the country from our families, and just the thought of people coming here freaks me out.

I would hate if they were here when the baby came, and that's about when they all are trying to plan their trips...within the 2 week before and after period of my due date.

I don't want to have to worry about getting an additional person together when I go into labor.

I don't want to deal with them coming up and NOT renting a car (and I know they won't because they can't afford it) or asking to stay with us in our 2br house.

 

Maybe I'm just freaking out here, but I really dread this aspect of having the baby...and I know when I tell them not to come down right after (or before) the baby is born they are going to be pissed at me.

Sigh.

 

I sound like a horrid person, don't I?