WHERE and WHEN is this mysterious event occuring?? Particularly those of you that also have older children....when the heck are you able to have sex?
My 7 w/o is still not falling asleep until midnight (after 4 hours of crying & us trying to rock & nurse her to sleep), and our toddler is up at 7 am, with the baby up twice during the night (and going back to sleep after eating IF we're LUCKY). By the time the baby is asleep, I know I have maybe 2 hours before I have to wake up again to feed her. I chose sleep last night. And also I'm not too groovy with having sex with the baby in the bassinet next to the bed. Plus our bed is creaky and after 4 hours of trying to get her to sleep, I really don't want to wake her up.
Anyone else on board with me?