I desperately need naptime advice. I've been getting a lot of criticism, and I rarely get help with the kids, so I need some constructive help.
DD is 2 years+2 months, her schedule is:
7:30-8:30 - wakes up
2-4pm - naptime
10pm - bedtime
However, she loves to sleep in late. I try to have her up by 8 at the latest. She also generally likes to sleep past 4pm, but if she does, then she goes to bed at like 10:40 (even if she only sleeps til 4:10). If I wake her before 4pm, she is MISERABLE and cranky.
Also, if I get her up a lot earlier - or like when we had the time change, she was melting down at noon, and I need to be at preschool picking up my 4.5 year old, and then it means I can't ever go to lunch or even make it through lunch for that matter.
Any suggestions? The day after Xmas, I accidentally overslept with her til 9am, so then I got rid of her nap that day because I certainly wasn't going to put her down at 3/3:30pm. She slept about 8:30pm-8am, but she was cranky in the evening from missing her nap.
And I have tried everything to get her to take her nap earlier - lullaby, white noise, lavender, milk, rocking her to sleep. So I'd love any help!
ETA - I also do a big routine for bedtime - snack, bath, stories, and then everything I do for her nap. I'm desperate to get her to bed earlier, I'm about to lose my mind over her late bedtime.