Mixed up days and nights and screaming all morning

jeremiahz_momma03

How do I teach my 1 month old her days and nights? she has them mixed up and its horrible I try waking her up during the day but that doesnt help. also last night(well this morning) she was screaming since 3am-9am didnt want to be held or in her swing,bouncer,crib, my bed. or anything then she calmed down and was up chilling until like 11 and she finally fell asleep. what could have that been? && if it happens again what do i do? she also doesnt like sleeping in her crib when she wakes up at 3am to eat. She wants to sleep on my bed. I don't want her too but she won't sleep otherwise. TIA