What/who did you tell

scout426

So a good portion of my family has an idea of what I'm going thru with stbxh.  So far I have had nothing but support.  But with Christmas in comes the rest of a very large family at very social family events.  My question to you:  When you first seperated or started your divorce what did you tell those around you.  Obviously I do expect some talk between other family members giving the new arrivals a heads up as to why I am there sans husband (I've never been here for Christmas before).  Were you up front about any abuse.  Did you make public any knowledge about the use of drugs or cheating if that applies to your situation.  Or did you just keep your mouth shut and avoid all conversations that might involve your marriage.