How did you decide to leave?

CowboysWife04

If there was no obvious abuse or drugs etc, how did you finally decide it was best to leave? H and I almost got divorced back in April but reconciled in June. His involvement with the kids is much better now. However the issues with our relationship are just as bad as before. Its a really long story and I'll share more if you have questions...just don't want to ramble. I'm but sure how know if I should leave again and for good. The girls think he walks on water and get excited every time they see him so I feel guilty even thinking about them not getting to see him every day just because we can't get along.