So, I am 16wks 1d, and it still doesn't feel real. I haven't been sick, boobs aren't sore, just a little tired, and very little weight gain, like 5 lbs, and no movement yet. I feel like I should be feeling "her" already, and I am afraid that since it doesnt feel real yet, that I am not as attached as I should be? we have had an u/s and heard the heartbeat, so I know "she's" in there, so I am not sure why I feel like this because DH and I are more than excited, as this is our first child.....has this ever happened to anyone? Will it hit me once I feel movement?