Moms of 2+...have you found a groove yet?

CA2006

Just wondering how everyone else is doing. DS is in daycare b/c I usually work FT. Days with DD are as expected with a newborn. But I feel like things go downhill once DS comes home. DD still has to be ON us to sleep (and has a cold right now, so she's extra clingy even when awake now). Plus DD screams in her carseat, so we can't go anywhere unless necessary. It's become a bit better, but I am really looking forward to getting everyone into a solid routine.