We have been actively trying for #2, going through IUI's again. I went for some bloodwork and I always chat with the phlebotomists. I guess I should have just been quiet. We got talking, and based on my bloodwork that I needed, it was obvious it was for fertility. After telling her my very abbreviated version of my TTC life, this is what she said to me. "You don't pray hard enough". I was a little floored but then she said it again. She also asked if I go to church. I don't, for my own reasons. She then said I was "being punished by God and that I should really go to church". Thank God I didn't tell her about my losses or I think I'd have gone psycho on her. My responses were lame, I was just really hurt by that, she had me in tears. I just said I though she was a bitter, mean women who shouldn't be working with the public and as a women she should be ashamed of herself.
Ok so all I need to do is pray harder and go to church? Then I will get pregnant? WTH was I thinking going though all this crap?
Ok the above was the vent... I feel like I want to file a complaint, I actually want to punch her, but I will maintain civility. Would you or should I just let this go as someone who doesn't realize how spiteful and mean she's being? Thanks lady for starting my Friday out so fabulously!