I think we decided not to do a party this year for Dylan but I feel really bad about it. Well sort of. I feel like he won't know the difference this year anyways but I still feel a little guilty. It's just really hard because we don't have the room even for our immediate family. And being that his b-day is 5 days before Christmas it's just such a busy time. Last year we rented a lodge for his 1st b-day but I don't really want to go through all that again. I think we're going to just go out to eat the 4 of us and have cake at home.