He refused to go to mediation.....

Crystal318

I dont even know why I am asking because I already know what the next step should be but my ex refused to go to mediation today. He says I just need to "chill" "relax" "just enjoy the holidays with my son" "dont make such a big deal out of things".....He says he doesnt have a job (he lost it last week - got fired), he lives at his brother's house, etc. He wants me to wait until he is back on his feet so that he doesnt look so bad in court/mediation.  WTF? Really?  And here I am contemplating what I should do next....I need some serious therapy!!!