Please tell me about your long-distance visitation (long)

Kmalissa08

And Intro since I think I've only posted once on here awhile back. 

 Back-story: I'm from TX and moved to CO at the first of the year to be close to my older sister and nephews. Met the guy & dated him for 3 months when I got pregnant. He races for the olympics and for obvious reasons was not ready for a baby. There was a lot of tension between us b/c of this and the fact that we hadn't been dating long before. When I was 6 months pregnant, he told me that he would be there for my daughter, but didn't want to raise her as a family & wasn't going to be able to be around much the first year. (As the olympics are this coming year) I moved back to TX for more support since I'm not getting any from him. (he agreed this would be best)

 I guess what I'm wondering is how does the long distance visitation work? Who pays for the travel expenses  & would he even get to take her if I'm breastfeeding the first year anyways?

 Sorry this was so long & thanks to those of you who answer me!

 

Kelly