Seemingly no bonding, still visiting?

cemacmil

Has anyone else had a XH/EX not bond with your child but still visits and how do you deal?

I guess it is more annoying than anything else. He comes with his mom usually EOW for about 2 hours max (if he doesn't cancel - has made only about 7-8 visits thus far including the hospital). His mom is always the one playing with the baby and he just sits there saying nothing on the couch. WTF. It is not like we (my parents and I) are watching them all the time but she is still so young and he is so inconsistant she is not used to them at first. I guess I just need to stop asking myself "why."

P.S. There is a link to my new blog if anyone is interested. Blog newbie so it's kind of spotty