Just want to say...

MandiNewMommy

Sorry for all the drama that I brought with my question yesterday.  I really did come here to try and get an answer and some insight.  I have never had to deal with any of this and just wanted to talk to someone who might understand.  Like someone said I could have asked my question without all the other info but I did want to give a little back story and when I have time if you ladies don't mind if I post here I can tell you all of it.  I by no means am playing the vitim card, I know it takes two to make a baby. 

If anyone cares...things today went great.  They do have the "father" come at a dif time...LO and I just got our cheeks swabed and went on our merry way.