I'm absolutely sick for her. She would be 8 wks but started spotting so she went for an u/s. She has a 3yr old DD and has wanted a 2nd child for a looong time, and it took her YEARS to get her DH on board (which is a whole other story.)
She is a teacher in the Bronx, and doesn't get paid maternity, so she had to plan for a summer baby in order not to lose pay. I have no idea if she is going to wait another full year or if she will just say F-it and try for a school year baby, or if she will even try again at all. My heart is breaking for her, I know that pain, and I hate that she has to feel it. So not fair.