share your placement schedule or advice

CalisMom26

so I am completely struggling with my first attempt at a placement schedule for DD with her father (we haven't even had our court date yet). Her father came up with one that I do not agree with. DD is 3.5 months old and I am nursing her. I want to keep this up for at least a year.  Father lives over 100 miles away.  He thinks placement overnight, starting in two weeks is acceptable. He wants her every Saturday night. EVERY WEEKEND. I am not even going to say how unrealistic that is.

I didn't even want to discuss any overnights until she was at least 1 to 1.5 years old.

Is anyone willing to share with me what they have or how they figured things out?

I am not asking for people to judge or criticize me, I am just asking for those with infants to share their placement schedules.  I want to be realistic and fair.  I did purchase the book suggested by another bumpie about alternative parenting plans, but it suggests schedules for people that must live close to one another.

 

I am so confused!!