Just had my first appointment today with the midwife. I chose a midwife because they spend more time with you and I didn't want to feel rushed by some Dr. who didn't have time to answer my questions, but this was...a little strange.
We had a good 45 minutes and did discuss a lot of ?s, but she didn't ask me anything about family history, give me a pee test or an exam or anything. She did order a blood test but couldn't perform it there. PLUS I was hoping we'd get to do an ultrasound or hear the heartbeat today but no dice until at least 8 weeks.
Do you think this is normal? She was nice, but everyone was so mellow I swear they were smoking pot before I arrived. Should I be debating switching to a dr?