A question I know was asked but I can't find...

Brandyjean30

Who is using a midwife and who is using an OB?

I had an OB with my m/c and it was handled very matter -of-factly and I was just another person on their assembly line. I went with a different OB this time but was talking to a friend about her midwife and she LOVES her! Now I'm beginning to lean toward the midwife but my husband is very uncomfortable with the idea. He has an idea in his head that I'm going to give birth in our bathtub with some candles and music and that will definitely not be the case. I tried going online and showing him comparisons and he just shut down and told me it was whatever i wanted. So now I'm just wondering what kind of experiences you all have had with each?