I just have to say that I just read your story in the thread "lost my best friend" and you and I have the exact same experience. I posted earlier on the PGAL board "trouble with friends" and it is almost the same as what I'm going through. Maybe you can I can keep in contact and help each other work through this. I don't want to lose her friendship, I really want to salvage what is left....but I guess I just need someone to bounce things off of.
I'm sorry you are going through a very similar experience. I guess having a baby really is a life changer, in more facets of our life then just one.