My friend (of almost 20 years) asked me to be in her wedding this past January,the wedding is June 30, 2012. I have already ordered my dress, I just need to go pick it up. The only problem is, I am due June 13. To any of you who have children already, will I be up to/want to be in a wedding less than 3 weeks pp? And if I do decide to step down, will I even be up to attending as a guest? Thank you in advance!