so i just found out that i am expecting, and i'm approximately 6-7 weeks along, i think, based on when my last period was. i am going through a divorce and it will be final in 2 weeks.
i have been dating the father for a little over 5 months, and our relationship is good, but we both had decided we didn't want children or marriage. i have been on bc and we were always very safe, so obviously a positive hpt was a total shock.
i am scared to tell him that he's going to be a dad because he is so adamant about not wanting children. it's not that he hates kids, he just doesn't want any.
how do i tell him?