I've picked up clearance toys here and there for Ethan and just wrote out what I bought him and realized I am done. I don't want to go crazy this year since he doesn't need 10,000 toys. I have 1 thing for Sophia. I'll still have to shop for her and my neices. Plus I really want to go away again next year if dh gets a job so I want nothing for me . I would rather have memories with the kids than dh waste money just to put a present under the tree.