2 CS modification questions

yellowhappy618

In May my ex was receiving unemployment and the state issued a temporary order for my child support ($81/wk). In August he was no longer collecting unemployment, but still unemployed. He stated that his family was able to assist him with making the payments he was ordered to make under the temporary arrangement so the permanent order was given that he continue to pay the $81/wk.

My question is, if he finally gets a job, is there any way I can request a modification, even though my state has the 3 year modification rule?

Also, my ex has back support in the amount of $3,500. He obviously can't afford to pay towards that since he is unemployed and his family is providing the money he needs to pay for the regular weekly amount. Will I not see any of that money until he has a job? I assume so, but I am curious to know if anyone has a similar situation, but still had the money come to them.