DD was supposed to see ex yesterday, but she was sick. I suppose it wouldn't be an issue if we had a normal situation, but we don't. His visits are in public places, so I'd be taking her to the mall to spend 2 hours with him. I said, sorry, she's sick and we're staying home. Of course he was mad and didn't believe me. Should I just have taken her anyway and let him deal with the crying, cranky mess that she was?