question about court date!

imleeann

so i have my first ever court date oct 3.

on the paper i got it says its for "establishing parental rights" ..
im thinking that my sperm donor wont even show up.

the reason we are going to court is because i want to get full custody of B.
so if he doesnt show up then what? do they just give me full custody or what?!

im nervous! i havent seen sperm donor in forever, hes never seen brayden and knows nothing about him so idk what to expect when i go!