Recommend your baby gear

poz

So which video monitor do you love?  We got the Summer Baby Moments (7" color flat screen)- does anyone have this or would you recommend another one?

And whats up with the City Mini car seat adapter bar?  I got the 2011 City Mini and the bar, but the car seat does not feel secure at all.  (Graco Snugride- no#, just plain snugride).  Should I just return the bar and get a snap n go to use during the first few months?

We got the FP Rock n Play, that gets rave reviews from all my "IRL" friends.

What other baby gear is a must, or really really love to have?