Torn on what to do

jmepurple

According to our CS paperwork, Lil D's "father"  is responsible for all medical expenses after $200.  I just received 2 ambulance bills totalling $1,893.  Domestic Relations told me all I have to do is send him copies of the bills certified and he will have 30 days to pay them, or else it will be considered contempt of court. 

Although I can not afford to pay these bills, I am afraid that if I send them to him it will triger him possibly wanting to see DS.  This terrifies me.  He has wanted nothing to do with him, has not shown any interest.  With Lil D's asthma and other medical issues I am terrified at the thought of him getting visitation and not knowing whether he would be taken care of properly or not. 

The logical side of me says that there is a good probability that he will be piissy about having to pay the bills and continue to not have contact with us.  But the emotional, protective side of me is scared shiitless.