Just wanted to put that out there. Even if you EBF, your parner absolutely CAN be fully involved and bonded to the baby. My husband and son have a very special relationship, DH can do anything I can do (bath, bed, dinner, park, kissing boo boos...) I don't think he feels like he got robbed at all.
If you don't want to EBF, that's totally fine, I'm not saying one *should* or should *not* breastfeed, formula feed or pump.
But I do want to dispell the myth that a father can't or won't bond with a baby who exclusively breastfeeds. I would certainly not let that be a deterrent, if it's the only thing holding you back.
Hope I'm not rocking anyone's boat here!! Totally not what I meant to do!!!