Did your bump look very different the second time? By 19 weeks last time I had a HUGE well defined bump. that was up high and clearly the oblong of a girl.
This time, Im no where near as defined, and my waist measurement has shrunk by about 1.5 inches since BFP... so I look like its all carrying low like a boy, but still more of the "watermelon" shape of a girl vs. the "beach ball" shape of a boy.
thoughts?