How do you stay motivated?

jerseybroadwaybaby

I am scared Im gonna get really fat with this pregnancy. Thus far I am on par with where I was with my first. But with him I was really careful about everything and I gained slower then I am now. Now that I know what t expect I fee like I give in to every craving! DH is a horrible motivator. I told him I wanted to start being really careful today and he served me two hostess cupcakes after dinner for desert. He put them on our fancy china to try and be cute. I always feel bad turning him down when he does stuff like that. Plus he is not pregnant so why should he suffer? I think it really hit me today when I caught sight of one o my christmas dishes and realized I am going to be pregnant all the way through the holidays! I got a prenatal pilates video but I have yet to use it...Im aways too tired when I get home from work or my running around for the day.

Any suggestions on how to get my butt outta this funk and stay motivated?