DH and I are going to counseling. My first issue is that he will argue in front of B.Not a full out screaming but arguing. I refuse to answer and wisk her away. At our session he told me this really made him mad, his parents fought all the time in front of him. I don't remember a single time that my parents ever fought in front of us. They would always leave the room. So the therapist said it was common to learn your "fighting" or arguing style from your parents. Anyone have any thoughts on this? Did you take on your parents style or do you try to do the opposite in front of your kids? Her statement has been rolling around in my brain and thought I'd see what you lovely ladies thought. Step one: learning how to have disagreements. Fun times.
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